Words of Wisdom

  • remember the narcissists method of DARVO – Deny, Attack, and then Reverse Victim and Offender. React to it with JADE – do not Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain. Just walk away.
  • a narcissist is omeone who demands that you give up everything for them in order for you to become nothing to them.
  • pranks should annoy and amuse, not destroy and abuse. Beware of Schrödinger’s asshole – someone who decides whether they are joking or not depending on the reaction of those around them – ‘it was just a joke!’
  • When I became a man, I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up – CS Lewis. Don’t be afraid to enjoy ‘childish things’. Who cares what people think?
  • People were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos is because things are being loved and people are being used – Dalai Lama XIV

Author: Janet Carr

Fashion, beauty and animal loving language consultant from South Africa living in Stockholm, Sweden.

2 thoughts

  1. I love your posts which are funny, mind numbing and also that blow my mind. You are spot on with this post Narcissists destroy your sense of self in order to prove that you are worthless and they are better. If we don’t react apart from walking away then we can save our sanity and avoid becoming worthless property to narcissists who will abuse us mentally for their own sense of worth.

    1. I have, unfortunately, had a relationship with a narcissist. Luckily in the end I was strong enough to cut them off, even when they tried every now and then to reach out (probably to try and control me). It’s something you never forget.

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