Sometimes people have no manners

Just before the summer I was shopping for underwear in a local store. The underwear and children’s departments are on the lower ground floor, so you go down on an escalator.

As I walked in I noticed this woman looking at clothes while her young children climbed all over the alarm sensors at the door. I idly wondered if it was dangerous to be spending so much time so near these sensors as I seem to remember they emit radiation.

When I went down the escalator I saw her behind me, talking on her phone while her kids (about 4 and 6 years old) frolicked on the escalator. I bit my tongue.

They then ran screaming around the children’s section while the woman browsed the underwear and I didn’t see where they went to, until I heard screaming. One of them had been riding the escalator and his torn rubber wellington boot had become stuck in the side tread on the escalator. LUCKILY a sales associate was nearby and managed to stop the escalator just in time. The woman was furious about the ‘dangerous escalator’ being in use and was going to ‘take this further’. No thought about perhaps keeping her children with her at all times.

As I left a short while later I heard one of the escalator repairmen saying that he was always upset by call-outs like this because people never realise how badly it could have ended, and he has children of his own.

I am probably getting old and grumpy but it never ceases to amaze me how people behave when they are out in public. Delaying queues for a cash register while they finish up a phone conversation. Letting their children wreak havoc on toy departments but not putting anything back. Putting their muddy dirty shoes on underground seats. Speaking loudly for ages on their phones, as if they were alone. Watching movies loudly on the bus. Leaving litter behind them when they leave. Changing diapers on restaurant tables or cutting their nails on public transport. Getting blind drunk and acting like assholes on planes. Having phone conversations in a movie theatre. The list is endless.

I don’t mind people having short phone conversations on public transport, putting their makeup on or breastfeeding in public, or children being children. But sometimes there are things you should stick to doing at home, or at least where no one can see you.

What do you think?



Categories: Articles, Culture

3 replies

  1. You echo my thoughts. I thought I have become overly sensitive to people not having manners but, it’s good to know I’m not alone. It also annoys me when people talk really loudly in elevators, or push the close button on you.

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  2. Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    SEE THE FOLLOWING REPOST ABOUT LACK OF A POSITIVE MORAL CENTER—-AND LACK OF SELF RESPONSIBILITY (OR THAT FOR ONE’S OWN KIDS) WE NEED SOME—QUICK!

    Liked by 1 person

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